Breaking Ungodly/Unhealthy Soul Ties (with ex-boy/girlfriends, ex-spouses, and other ungodly relationships)
The Axe of the Holy Spirit Upon Foundational Roots - Freedom from Generational Sins, Curses, and Bondage
Healing the Wounded and Broken Spirit (Healing from emotional pain, rejection, betrayal, loss, and other traumatic experiences
Overcoming Rejection
Freedom from Depression and Suicidal Tendencies
Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety
"THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT" - Avoiding the Infidelity Trap (Adultery Prevention and Recovery)
Are you in the middle of a love triangle or know any one who is?
Though your spouse has broken off an affair, has the “other woman” or “the other man” becomes a thorn in your flesh or a snare in your relationship because you have become emotionally attached to the affair?
Are you broken hearted over an affair? You want to move on with your life but can’t let go because you are struggling with feelings of rejection, disappointment, betrayal, and other unresolved wounds?
Do you feel like you’re on an uphill battle with learning to love and trust again?
OR
Are you in love with someone else other than your spouse and are torn between your mate and “the other woman” or “the other man”?
Are you involved in an affair but do not know how to get out because you feel entangled and trapped in it?
Have you broken off an affair but are still wrestling with feelings of guilt, shame, and condemnation?
Conference Overview Infidelity is one of the leading causes of divorce. Adultery is a snare and a thorn to a relationship. Infidelity hurts and breaks marriages. It not only betrays trust, it rips the core of a relationship to shreds. But we can avoid adultery or recover from it through the power of the Holy Spirit. This program exposes the adultery trap. It untangles the adultery web that weaves betrayal, distrust, and strife in a relationship and furnishes the tools to confront and overcome the temptation to be unfaithful. For couples whose spouses have been unfaithful but desire emotional healing and restoration of their relationships, there is hope. Your marriage can survive an affair if only you are willing to allow God to help you understand human fallibility so you can extend forgiveness. Forgiving your mate does not make him or her right, or excuse his or her wrong. But it does create an avenue for divine intervention. Regardless of whether he deserves mercy or not, releasing your hurt activates and speeds up the healing process. For spouses who have been unfaithful, hope and help are available as long as you are willing to accept responsibility, walk through the process of repentance, change, and restoration. You and your mate can discover how to extend forgiveness, develop lasting friendship, build mutual trust, fall in love all over again, and discover how to "adultery and divorce proof " your marriage.
Conference Focus
Identifying the Warning Signs of an Affair
"Too Hot to Handle/Too Dangerous to Taste!" (Overcoming the Temptation to be Unfaithful)
Practical and Proven ways to End an Affair
Recovery, Healing, and Restoration from Adultery
“Life after an Affair"
Healthy boundaries to Wade off or Prevent an Affair
Who Should Attend?
Suspicious spouses who feel that their mates are cheating on them;
Singles, Divorcees, Engaged, and Married couples that want useful information and resources to avoid the “Affair trap”
Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy)
Affairs affect one of every 2.7 couples, according to counselor Janis Abrahms Spring, author of After the Affair, as reported by the Washington Post on March 30, 1999. Ten percent of extramarital affairs last one day, 10 percent last more than one day but less than a month, 50 percent last more than a month but less than a year, but 40 percent last two or more years. Few extramarital affairs last more than four years.
A lesser known fact is that those who divorce rarely marry the person with whom they are having the affair. For example, Dr. Jan Halper’s study of successful men (executives, entrepreneurs, professionals) found that very few men who have affairs divorce their wife and marry their lovers. Only 3 percent of the 4,100 successful men surveyed eventually married their lovers.
Infidelity Statistics
Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy)